I am strong.
I am capable.
I am worthy,
I am loveable.
I am resilient.
I am enough.
But most of all,
I got this thing.
All in Relationships
“Everything that I desire in life will come to me when it’s expected to. But it will not stay with me if I am not prepared to receive it. It will be like putting cash in a bag with a hole.” Uncle Paul
I choose to be true to myself, and I refuse to allow other people’s opinions of me, dictate my path. This life that I am living is a journey that I must walk, even if I have to walk it alone. Uncle Paul
“I am not a victim to my emotions or actions. I have the power to control them. What I say or what I do is my choice, and there are no excuses. I must own it.” Uncle Paul
“Whatever you are going through, remember this, it’s just temporary-it’s not your destiny.” Uncle Paul
“Stop whining about the delays and start preparing for when it comes.” Uncle Paul
"PEOPLE WILL JUDGE YOU.
PEOPLE WILL TALK ABOUT YOU.
PEOPLE WILL MISUNDERSTAND YOU.
BUT I HAVE COME TO THE
CONCLUSION THAT WHAT OTHER
PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ME
IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS."
“My point is simply this; I’m allowed to experience the feelings and struggles associated with my current life circumstances, and so are you. Never minimize your feelings and needs, even if someone else’s is far more tragic.” UNCLE PAUL
“A house built on sand cannot stand, and a foundation built upon lies will surely fall.” Uncle Paul
Your Pain Is Not For You
“Maybe God has allowed some pain and suffering in your life so that it would open the doors of opportunity for us to help those that only we can help. Why? Because we have walked in their shoes and can understand their pain in a way that no one else can. Our journey came with some pain and suffering, and maybe, because of what we experience, we can use our pain to lighten the burdens of for someone else. What the devil meant for evil, turned out to be a blessing for others.” Uncle Paul
Share Your Story
“God didn’t pull us out of that dark place so that we could keep it to ourselves. He pulled us out so that we can help pull others out also.” Uncle Paul
Your Pain Has Purpose
“Don’t waste your pain, use your pain for someone else’s gain. After all, your pain has a purpose our mission is to find it.” Uncle Paul
Stop Wasting Precious Time
“So, we must make the best of the time that we are given. For the future is not promised, so we must seize today and live it like there will be no tomorrow. We must love today day as if we have never been hurt before. We must step out on the dance floor of life, and dance like nobody is watching. We must sing like we are in the shower and nobody listening, and we must live like its heaven on earth. Each day comes bearing its own gifts, and we must untie, the ribbons, open the box and use the gift.” Uncle Paul
It’s Time To Customized Your Life
“WE WERE NOT BORN TO BE CARBON COPIES; WE WERE BORN TO BE DESIGNER ORIGINALS. WE ARE CUSTOMIZABLE. DON’T SETTLE FOR THE DEFAULT SETTINGS IN LIFE. THE WORLD DOESN’T NEED ANOTHER CARBON COPY; WE NEED A CUSTOMIZED YOU." Uncle Paul
Nothing Substitutes for Hard Work. Nothing
“If you want something bad enough, you have to make sacrifices. You have to grind your ass off and fight your way to success. If you want it bad enough, you have to work longer and harder than anyone else. Book knowledge and degrees are great, but nothing substitutes for old fashion hard work.”
Uncle Paul
Reframe Your Story, Reclaim Your Life
“We are the storytellers, the narrators of our lives, we choose the story of our highs and lows, and we can spin our stories in any direction we want. That is, we can reframe our stories so that they serve and support us. In the end what really matters is not what happens to us, but the stories that we tell ourselves about what took place. What, story are you speaking? Reframe your story, reclaim your life.”
Uncle Paul
Sometimes You Got To Release It And Let It Go
“Today I Choose To Let You Go And To Start The Process Of Rediscovering Myself” Uncle Paul
Celebrate the Small Victories
“Don’t wait until we’ve reached our goals to celebrate. It is the little victories that happen along the way, that reaffirms our commitment to the process. We must rejoice when we accomplish what seems like even a small victory, and we must learn to cherish the process on the way to our big victories. Someone once said, that our victories are won not in miles but in inches. Win a little now, hold your ground, and win a little more later. Don’t wait for “someday” to celebrate, celebrate the small victories along the way and be happy now.”
Push through it.
“Thought: Don’t let life’s stress fractures, challenges and disappointments cast a shadow on tomorrow's dreams. We will face challenges, but we must push through them. It’s going to be painful, but we must push as hard as we can, to get to the other side of the pain. For it is on the other side of the pain, that we will find out, that all the pain was all worth it. Push through it.” Uncle Paul
Let Past Be Your Past
“Let your past be a lesson, that has been learned and applied. The only way you can continue to be harmed by your past is if you let it. Your past is your past, now, brush that dirt off your shoulders and march forward with your head in the air and with a new determination.” Uncle Paul