“Our life purpose should be to help someone along the way. But, if we can’t help them, we should do our best not to hurt them.” Uncle Paul
“Life is too short to get worked up over things that you cannot change. Change that which you can and let the other stuff go.” Uncle Paul
‘Letting go is not about forgetting, it is about letting go of the past and having faith enough to open our hearts to a new journey, even if it means getting hurt all over again. We must walk in faith not knowing the outcome, but trusting that each lesson that we learn along the way, will make us stronger.” Uncle Paul
“Walk with the wise and become wise. Walk with the ignorant and become ignorant. Be careful of the company that you keep.” Uncle Paul
“You can’t rewind the past. You can’t predict the future. But we can choose how we respond to them both. You have the power to make your day.” Uncle Paul
“In all of our lives, changes will always happen, both planned and unexpected. It’s how we deal with the changes that are thrown our way, that shows the world who we are as people and the inner strength that we have deep inside. Change is going to come, accept it gracefully.” Uncle Paul
“When people can only see you for what you were and not for what you have become, and they cannot understand that you are not your mistake, it’s time to let them go. We all deserve a second chance.” Uncle Paul
“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Things change. People change. Relationships change. Jobs change. Friends change. People come into our lives, and people leave our lives. People are born, and people will die. Everything will change, but we must keep living.” Uncle Paul
“I have concluded that everything is not for everybody. What appears to have no value to you does not mean that it has no value to another. Don’t criticize what doesn’t work for you; because someone else may find value in it. Everything is not for everybody, and that is okay. If it doesn’t work for you, then quietly move on to that which works for you.” Uncle Paul
When our boat springs a leak, we must decide if our energy is better spent fixing the leak or if changing vessels is more productive. Sometimes you just have to abandon the old boat and move to a new one. Stop holding on to things that are no longer serving you. If it doesn't have purpose, then let it go. Uncle Paul
“We must stop trying to make people fit into our boxes. Why should others be uncomfortable, so that we can be comfortable? Stop labeling people, for labels belong on cans and not on people.” Uncle Paul
“When we set out on a journey of revenge, we are not digging one grave we are digging two. Revenge comes with a big price tag. For the best revenge is no revenge. Leave the wrongdoer to their own wrongdoing; life will always correct the wrong.” Uncle Paul
“For when we look deep within ourselves, we will find everything we will ever need. We must spend time cultivating our inner experiences, and when we do, we will know ourselves from within, and that is true wisdom.” Uncle Paul
“If we are to move forward in the journey called life, we must be willing to be flexible, adaptable, and willing to accept change. When we do, we are no longer stagnant; we are now living in life’s flow and walking in our purpose. We must never be afraid of change, for change is a necessary part of life. Everything must change; absolutely, nothing stays the same.” Uncle Paul
“The seeds that we sow will determine the crop that we will harvest. We must all ask ourselves, what kind of seeds are we sowing?” Uncle Paul
We often say, some-day, I will. Some-day, I ‘ll get started. Some-day, I will complete it. Can someone please tell me what day of the week some-day is? Make your some-day, to-day. Uncle Paul
"When you spend you today worrying about yesterday, more than likely, you will spend your tomorrow worrying about today. Stop lamenting over your yesterday, for it is gone in the wind. Instead, focus on your new day and what it can bring you, for it has a lot to offer." Uncle Paul
“We all go through things in life. But, remember this, your today’s struggle is building strength for your tomorrow.” Uncle Paul
“Don’t stop believing. Don’t stop Trying. Don’t Give Up. Weeping may endure for a night, but your day is gonna come if you just hold on till the morning comes.” Uncle Paul
“Change comes with options; we have the option to change or the option not to change. In the end, change is up to use. So, if nothing seems to be changing in our lives, check the one that chooses the options.” Uncle Paul