This one thing I know, I can’t learn your lessons for you, each one of us must gain our own experiences accordingly. Each new experience brings with it a new level of maturity and clarity. My greatest life lessons came from the most challenges experiences in my life. Not one of us can expect to live a life unscathed; all we can do is keep trying and not to lose sight of the essence of ourselves. Yes, pain can be a negative experience, or it can be our greatest teacher if we allow it to transform our lives. Embrace each experience and let each one have its way.