At some point in life, we must stop blaming everyone else for our life woes There’s no easy way to put this, maybe the problem is not everybody else, perhaps the problem is you. It is easy to blame someone else, but it is difficult to accept the fact that we ourselves are the problem. We must examine ourselves and take personal responsibility for our actions and lives. Before you point the finger at someone else, ask yourself the following questions. Am I the problem? If so, ask yourself what part did I play in it and what can I do to fix it? Stop looking on the outside for the answer, for the answer lies within.