As I reminisce about my past, I have come to realize that my past cannot be relived. It is what it is. Those memories of the past, no matter how painful they are, they cannot be unlived. Dwelling on the past changes nothing, you have to have a sense that you can heal and find a different place to put the pain. The only thing we can do now is, accept what was, accept what is, and face tomorrow not being afraid to leave the past behind. Remember this; we don't get over the past. We get past it.