Do you find yourself trying to change things you have no control over? Why spend precious time obsessing over the things that are out of your control and frankly, those things that really don’t matter. If we can’t change a situation or an outcome our best option is to spend time on things that are actually within our control. There are very few things in life that we can control. But, the things we can, our thoughts, our actions, and our deeds are the things we must focus on. So, whenever your thoughts take on a life of its own, inside of your head, remind yourself to stop.  To stop obsessing over what you cannot control and focus on what you can. It’s just a thought. – Paul Steven Smith (Uncle Paul) www.unclepaulsthoughts.com