You alone are responsible for your life, for you are the architect, and you define what success means to you. You choose your terms, you set your own rules, and it by those rules that you build the life, you want. Like it not, you and you alone are responsible for the person you are today. One must take responsibility for their own lives. No apologies, no excuses and no one to blame.
Look, this is your gift called life, and it can be an amazing journey and when you realize that, that will be the day that your life really begins. It’s your call. It’s your life. Live it.